The secret BDSM world of a Paris Dominatrix
Let me introduce you to the psycho-sexual sorcery of submission and BDSM. I invite you to meet me in my well-appointed dungeon in central Paris to explore the darker corners of your mind. It doesn’t matter if this will be your first time with a mistress or if you are a seasoned Femdom submissive, our time together will live in your head forever.
I am the celebrated New York dominatrix, Domina M, who has been residing in Paris for the past decade. I bring my unique brand of skilled and mindful kink to my adopted city via my elaborate dungeon, the likes never before seen in France.
Start creating your bespoke BDSM experience now, or continue reading.
It takes 5 minutes with my scheduling app
This app is the same one used by salons and is linked directly with my schedule. Your 20% deposit will automatically block our time in my calendar and an email with the dungeon location will be immediately sent to you.
If you need more information about me try my FAQs page
My FAQs pages quickly answers the top questions
Wait! I've never done this before!
Everyone has to start somewhere. If you have never seen a dominatrix or played before, that’s okay. I have created a guide to tell you more about what professional sessions are and are not and what you will need to do to prepare.
Welcome to my Private Dungeon, Studio Xème
I love elaborate gear. My decade in Paris has seen me build and rebuild my dungeon into a masterpiece of immersive art. While the dungeon is relatively compact, I make use of every inch, and all the furniture serves multiple purposes. I don’t have room for cheap toys. Just like everything in my life, all my equipment must justify its space in utility and quality.
The BDSM psychology of my dungeon is practical and theatrical. You feel as though you are both whisked away to a fantastical world, yet are simultaneously safe and comforted. I have given a tremendous amount of thought to every detail to ensure your comfort so that your only thoughts are about what I am doing. For example, you may be completely immobile and vulnerable, but no undue stress will be felt on your knees while on my bench. My hygiene and cleaning protocols exceed the standards of hospitals (techniques learned from an infectious disease specialist), which is another worry to leave your mind.
My dungeon is constantly evolving and growing. Please check back often for the newest installments.
A real BDSM dungeon in Paris?
I have the best equipped dungeon in Paris, and possibly all of France. I’m proud of my equipment, and don’t mind chatting about it.
The Alchemist in the Flesh as a Paris Dominatrix
What happens in a BDSM session?
My approach to female domination is romantic, scientific, mindful, and, most of all, mischievous. My authority stems from my knowledge, intuition, and natural talent to make you feel at ease with submission. I have no use for systems of bullying, shouting, or other methods of intimidation. I am simply me. It’s much easier for me to inspire submission than to terrorize someone into it. Being strict and high protocol is not the same as being mean.
The first step is to schedule an appointment with the intake form. The form gives me a general idea of your interests and assures me that we are compatible. It does not replace the in-person interview upon arrival. This time allows me to see how you answer questions and begin the mental creation of our scene. More importantly, it will enable you to acclimate and become comfortable with me and your surroundings. We will fully define the experience you are seeking and our respectful limits. All of this creates an atmosphere that allows you to relax and enjoy. You know you will be just fine afterward, but you will have the most intense few hours of your life.
See what other people have to say
I’ve collected some of my feed back on one page so you can see how some people experience my sessions in their own words. Also links to other sites where I am reviewsed, interviewed and my domina friends with whom I exchange referrals.
But what REALLY happens in a BDSM session?
I have created a few pages with deeper descriptions and photo inspiration of some of my specialties. This is nowhere near an exhaustive list of my skills and capabilities, but something to give you an idea of my tastes and style.
If you need more specific help with choosing, try my Guide for Femdom Newbies page.
Anal Games
All my anal games start with a warm up so I can judge what you can take. Learn more about the techniques and possibilities. There are more sensations than you can dream up.
Immersive Bondage
From padded leather cuffs to elaborate rope, from exotic device bondage to mummification, I have a passion for bondage and my dungeon reflects that. You can read about my philosophy of bondage in BDSM play.
Medical Fetish in Paris
Kind, strict, sophisticated, and technical, medical fetish fits perfectly with my demeanor. Read more about the sadistically smiling nurse. It’s for your own good!
Domina M’s Femdom Blog
Presenting the Dominator Spanking Bench
The spanking bench is the pivotal piece of BDSM furniture in a dungeon,. With this bench I can out do myself, spanking and beyond.
Let’s go Strap-on Shopping! Buying Adult Toys
There is so much to know about strap-on shopping. First learn about all the options for adult toys and make an educated choice.
Luxembourg Dominatrix tour for November
Prepare yourself for the Luxembourg dominatrix tour this November 27 through 30. Attend a class on spanking or book a private session.